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What Are “Spoons”? Understanding the Spoon Theory in Mental Health

If you’ve ever heard someone say, “I’m out of spoons today,” and wondered what on earth they meant, you’re not alone. It’s not about forgetting to do the dishes—it’s a shorthand that’s taken root in disability and mental health communities to describe something many of us struggle to explain: limited energy. The Spoon Theory, coined […]

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Acceptance, Anxiety, Boundaries, Challenges, College/Students, Compassion, Coping Skills, Couples, Family, Friends, Mental Health, Relationships, Stress

Why Brain Breaks Matter: The Science of Pausing to Boost Focus and Mental Health

In a culture that glorifies being busy, taking a break can feel like slacking off. Whether you’re a student grinding through assignments, a professional hopping from one Zoom call to another, or a parent juggling a hundred mental tabs, stopping—even for a minute—can feel counterintuitive. But the truth is, our brains aren’t designed to run

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Acceptance, Coping Skills, Goals, Mental Health, Professional/Work, Resilience

Why “Letting Them” Might Be Your Best Mental Health Move Yet

If you’ve ever found yourself constantly stepping in to fix, manage, or smooth things over for everyone else, you’re in good company. It’s a habit that sneaks in quietly and stays for the long haul. And while it often comes from a caring place, it can leave you feeling exhausted and emotionally drained. What if

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Acceptance, Challenges, Family, Mental Health, Relationships

Understanding Genderfluidity: Signs You Might Be Genderfluid

If you’ve ever noticed that your sense of gender doesn’t fit neatly into the categories of “male” or “female,” or it seems to shift and change over time, you might be experiencing something known as genderfluidity. But what exactly does it mean to be genderfluid? And how can you recognize if this label resonates with

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Acceptance, LGBTQ+

What Separates People Who Heal From Those Who Stay Stuck

Healing isn’t neat, simple, or the same for everyone. But if you’ve ever wondered why some people seem to grow through what broke them while others feel stuck in the same loops, you’re definitely not alone. We all carry wounds—some obvious, some buried—but healing isn’t about being stronger or smarter than anyone else. It’s about

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Acceptance, Healing, Motivation, Personal Development

How Lowering Your Expectations Can Actually Boost Your Happiness (Seriously!)

You know that feeling—when you build something up in your mind, only to have reality come in and knock it sideways? Maybe it was a weekend you were really looking forward to, a family get-together you hoped would be healing, or a vacation you thought would reset everything… and then, it just didn’t go the

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Acceptance, Challenges, Mental Health, Resilience

6 Therapist-Backed Tips for a Happier, Healthier You

Happiness isn’t a constant high or a perfect life where nothing ever goes wrong. It’s more like a rhythm—an ebb and flow of moments where we feel grounded, content, and connected to ourselves and the world around us. But if you’re feeling stuck in a low mood or just want to invite more joy into

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Acceptance, Affirmations, Boundaries, Challenges, Motivation, Tips, Wellness

Why Counterculture Matters in Therapy: Healing Through Authenticity and Rebellion

When you hear the term “counterculture,” your mind might jump straight to images of tie-dyed shirts, punk music, or rebellious youth movements. But what if I told you that embracing counterculture could also be a powerful tool for mental health, personal growth, and healing? Counterculture work, especially in therapy, is all about stepping out of

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Acceptance, Healing, Personal Development, Resilience

How to Let Go of Perfectionism and Embrace Imperfection

Perfectionism often feels like wearing a badge of honor—until it starts to weigh you down. The endless striving for flawlessness might push you to achieve great things, but it often comes at a cost: stress, burnout, and a nagging sense that nothing you do is ever quite good enough. Letting go of perfectionism doesn’t mean

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Acceptance, How To, Perfectionism

Finding Symbols of Hope in Everyday Life

Hope can often feel elusive, especially when life throws its curveballs. Yet, it’s remarkable how the simplest things in our environment can quietly serve as symbols of hope—offering a little light in the darkness and grounding us when we feel untethered. These symbols may not be loud or grand, but they carry a quiet resilience

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Acceptance, Affirmations, Coping Skills, Mental Health, Resilience

Finding Peace in Uncertain Times: Strategies for Navigating Life’s Curveballs

The world can feel like a whirlwind of unpredictability. Whether it’s global events, personal challenges, or simply the twists and turns of everyday life, uncertainty has a way of unsettling even the calmest among us. The good news? Finding peace in the midst of uncertainty isn’t about eliminating the chaos—it’s about learning how to anchor

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Acceptance, Challenges, Coping Skills

Discovering Food Freedom: What It Really Means for Your Mind and Body

Food freedom is a term that’s buzzing in wellness circles, but what does it actually mean? Spoiler: it’s not about ditching structure or ignoring nutrition. It’s about creating a healthy, sustainable relationship with food—one that works for you, not against you. At its core, food freedom is the absence of guilt, shame, or anxiety around

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Acceptance, Nutrition

The Truth About “The One That Got Away”: Why It’s Often Just a Fantasy

Romanticizing the idea of “the one that got away” can feel bittersweet and poetic—a nostalgic reflection on a past love who seemed perfect but slipped through your fingers. It’s a trope we see in movies, hear in songs, and replay in our own memories. But here’s the thing: that idealized version of “the one that

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Acceptance, Relationships

Finding Joy in the Little Things: Brightening Dreary January Days

January has a way of feeling heavier than most months. The holidays are over, the weather is colder (and often grayer), and the excitement of New Year’s resolutions might already be losing its sparkle. It’s easy to let the weight of the season settle in. But sometimes, the antidote to a dreary month isn’t found

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Acceptance, Affirmations, Celebrate, Gratitude

When Gratitude Feels Impossible: Practical Alternatives for Tough Times

Gratitude is often touted as the golden key to happiness, but what happens when you just can’t seem to feel it? Maybe life feels heavy, or you’re stuck in a cycle of challenges that make “counting your blessings” sound like an unrealistic chore. If you’ve ever felt like gratitude is out of reach, you’re not

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Acceptance, Challenges, Coping Skills, Emotions, Gratitude