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What Is Derealization? Understanding the Surreal Feeling of Disconnection

Have you ever looked around and felt like the world wasn’t real? Like you were in a dream, watching life happen but not quite part of it? Maybe colors seem off, sounds feel distant, or everything looks like a hazy movie scene. If any of this sounds familiar, you might have experienced derealization—a strange but […]

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Attachment, Connection, Dissociation

Understanding Why You Accept Poor Treatment and How to Break the Cycle

Ever find yourself replaying moments in your head where you accepted something that didn’t feel right? Maybe it was a dismissive comment, an unkind action, or even being taken for granted. It’s frustrating to think about, but understanding why we tolerate poor treatment is the first step toward changing the narrative. There are plenty of

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Attachment, Boundaries, How To, Personal Development

Why Offering Reassurance Feels Impossible for Avoidant Attachment Styles

We all crave a little reassurance now and then. A quick “I love you,” a text that says, “Thinking about you,” or even a simple nod when we’re venting about our day—these tiny moments can be grounding and affirming. But if you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone who leans avoidant, you might have

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Attachment, Emotions, Family, Relationships