Boundaries

Supporting vs Enabling: How to Know the Difference and Why It Matters

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, Am I actually helping or am I making this worse, you’re not alone. This is one of the most common and confusing dynamics I see in relationships. On the surface, support and enabling can look almost identical. You care deeply about someone. You want to protect them from pain. […]

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Boundaries, Family, Friends, How To, Relationships

What Spoon Theory Really Means and Why It Matters for Your Mental Health

If you have ever heard someone say, “I am out of spoons today,” and felt confused, you are not alone. It has nothing to do with chores or dishes. It is a way many people describe something that is hard to put into words: limited energy. Spoon Theory is a concept that comes from disability

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Acceptance, Anxiety, Boundaries, Challenges, College/Students, Compassion, Coping Skills, Couples, Family, Friends, Mental Health, Relationships, Stress
How to Tell If You’re Stuck in the Doomscrolling Spiral (And What It’s Doing to Your Brain)

How to Tell If You’re Stuck in the Doomscrolling Spiral (And What It’s Doing to Your Brain)

You know how it starts. You’re just going to check one thing. A quick peek at the news, maybe see what’s trending, scroll a little before bed. Ten minutes, tops. Suddenly it’s 1:12 a.m., your phone’s at 6%, and you’re convinced the world might actually be ending. Welcome to doomscrolling—your brain’s least fun way to

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Boundaries, How To, Social Media
The Real Difference Between Requests and Boundaries in Relationships

The Real Difference Between Requests and Boundaries in Relationships

“Can you not do that?” “I need you to stop.” “That makes me uncomfortable.” These all sound like boundaries, but they are not always actual boundaries. In therapy and in everyday life, we talk about boundaries a lot. One of the biggest points of confusion is the difference between a request and a boundary. Both

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Boundaries, Couples, Family, Friends, Relationships
How to Stop Parenting Your Parents: Setting Healthy Boundaries with Aging Loved Ones

How to Stop Parenting Your Parents: Setting Healthy Boundaries with Aging Loved Ones

It can be a tricky dynamic: as our parents age, we might notice them needing more support, advice, or even care. Maybe they call you for help navigating technology or managing their finances, or perhaps they seem to rely on you for emotional reassurance more than you expected. It’s natural to want to help the

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Boundaries, Family, How To, Parenting
5 Practical Ways to Combat Burnout and Reclaim Your Energy

5 Practical Ways to Combat Burnout and Reclaim Your Energy

Burnout is like a slow leak in your tire—by the time you realize something’s wrong, you’re already running on empty. It can sneak up on anyone, especially in today’s fast-paced world where we’re constantly juggling work, family, social obligations, and that never-ending list of things to do. If you’ve been feeling drained, unmotivated, or emotionally

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Boundaries, Connection, Family, Friends, Relationships, Therapy
Coping Statements for People Pleasers: Reclaim Your Voice Without Losing Yourself

Coping Statements for People Pleasers: Reclaim Your Voice Without Losing Yourself

Do you often find yourself saying “yes” when every fiber of your being wants to say “no”? If you’re nodding, you’re not alone—people-pleasing is a habit many of us pick up without realizing it. The urge to make everyone happy can feel like a full-time job, but it often leaves us feeling depleted, resentful, or

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Boundaries, Coping Skills, Personal Development, Relationships, Therapy
How to Stop Overextending Yourself: A Guide to Setting Healthy Boundaries

How to Stop Overextending Yourself: A Guide to Setting Healthy Boundaries

Does your schedule feel like a puzzle with no edges? One commitment overlaps the next, and suddenly, you’re wondering how you agreed to bake cookies for the school fundraiser, stay late at work, and help a friend move—all in the same weekend. If this sounds familiar, you might be overextending yourself, a habit that can

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Boundaries, Guides
: Why They Matter for Our Well-being

The Art of Setting Boundaries: Why They Matter for Our Well-being

In our buzzing, interconnected world, the concept of boundaries might seem like a relic from a bygone era of privacy and restrained communication. Yet, establishing and maintaining boundaries is not just a crucial component of self-care—it’s foundational to our mental and emotional health. Let’s dive into why boundaries are essential and how advocating for them

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Boundaries, How To
Why Taking Paid Time Off (PTO) Can Be Your Best Healthcare Strategy

Why Taking Paid Time Off (PTO) Can Be Your Best Healthcare Strategy

In today’s high-speed world, the hustle culture often glorifies being busy and equates taking a break with falling behind. However, what if we viewed Paid Time Off (PTO) not as a luxury, but as a vital component of our mental and physical health? Taking PTO can be one of the most significant health decisions you

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Boundaries, Mental Health, Professional/Work, Tips, Wellness
10 Everyday Behaviors That Might Actually Be Social Anxiety

10 Everyday Behaviors That Might Actually Be Social Anxiety

Social anxiety isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes, it looks like someone avoiding eye contact, dodging small talk, or obsessing over whether they sounded weird after saying “Have a good one!” at the checkout line. It’s not just about hating parties or public speaking—social anxiety can show up in subtle, everyday ways that are easy

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Anxiety, Boundaries, Challenges, Communication, Coping Skills
When Love Turns Toxic: The Bait-and-Switch of an Emotionally Abusive Partner

When Love Turns Toxic: The Bait-and-Switch of an Emotionally Abusive Partner

Picture this: You meet someone who seems perfect. They’re charming, attentive, and say all the right things. Maybe they shower you with compliments, text you good morning and good night, and make you feel like the center of their universe. It feels like a whirlwind romance—the kind you see in movies. But then, slowly, something

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Attachment, Boundaries, College/Students, Couples, Emotions, Fear, Gaslighting, Relationships, Trauma
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