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Why We Invalidate Our Own Traumas (And How It Holds Us Back)

When we think about trauma, we often picture significant, life-altering events—accidents, natural disasters, or severe losses. But trauma isn’t always so obvious or dramatic. In fact, many of us carry around experiences that we downplay, brush off, or minimize without even realizing we’re doing it. This is what’s known as invalidating trauma, and it’s more […]

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Trauma

When Love Turns Toxic: The Bait-and-Switch of an Emotionally Abusive Partner

Picture this: You meet someone who seems perfect. They’re charming, attentive, and say all the right things. Maybe they shower you with compliments, text you good morning and good night, and make you feel like the center of their universe. It feels like a whirlwind romance—the kind you see in movies. But then, slowly, something

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Attachment, Boundaries, College/Students, Couples, Emotions, Fear, Gaslighting, Relationships, Trauma

Navigating Post-Election Stress: The Role of Trauma-Informed Therapy

Presidential elections can stir up a whirlwind of emotions—hope, anxiety, anger, exhaustion, or even numbness. The campaign season, with its heated debates, relentless news cycles, and divisive rhetoric, often leaves us grappling with more than just political opinions. For many, these events can trigger deeper emotional responses rooted in past experiences, highlighting the importance of

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Stress, Therapy, Trauma

Navigating the Silent Sorrow: Understanding Perinatal Loss and Grief

Perinatal loss, encompassing miscarriage, stillbirth, and the loss of a newborn, remains one of the most profound yet least discussed heartbreaks a parent can face. This type of loss carries a unique kind of grief, often shrouded in silence, as many outside the experience struggle to comprehend the depth of the emotional turmoil involved. The

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Family, Grief, Parenting, Trauma, Women

Understanding Attachment Trauma: How Early Bonds Shape Our Lives

Attachment trauma arises when the critical bonds that should form in early childhood are disrupted. This disruption can lead to profound emotional scars, affecting a person’s ability to form healthy relationships throughout their life. Understanding this can be a key to unlocking the door to healing and growth. What is Attachment Trauma? Attachment theory, developed

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Children, Family, Relationships, Trauma

Understanding Generational Trauma: Breaking the Cycle for a Healthier Future

Generational trauma, a term that’s increasingly finding its way into our everyday conversations, refers to the psychological effects that the traumatic experiences of one generation can have on subsequent generations. From wartime hardships to family dysfunction, the shadows of past traumas can loom large, influencing emotional responses and behaviors across decades. What is Generational Trauma?

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Children, College/Students, Couples, Family, Parenting, Personal Development, Relationships, Trauma

Unraveling the Ties Between Trauma and Our Relationship with Food

When we think about trauma, we often consider its impact on our minds and emotions, but how often do we pause to consider its intricate relationship with something as fundamental as our eating habits? The connection between trauma and our relationship with food is a complex dance, often hidden in the shadows of our daily

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Healing, Nutrition, Trauma

Finding Balance in Sharing and Caring: Trauma Dumping

In our journey through life, we all carry our own set of emotional luggage. Some pieces are light and easy to manage, while others are heavy, cumbersome, and often, deeply personal. When it comes to sharing these heavier aspects, particularly our traumas, the concept of ‘trauma dumping’ emerges as a complex and delicate topic. What

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Communication, Therapy, Trauma

The Unexpected Ways Trauma Can Change Your Personality

How Trauma Can Change Your Personality — And What That Actually Means

Ever look in the mirror and feel like you don’t recognize the person staring back? Not in a dramatic, movie-montage kind of way—but in that quiet, jarring sense that something about you has shifted. Maybe you’re more on edge than usual. Maybe the things that used to make you laugh now leave you numb. If

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Trauma

Understanding and Navigating the Fawning Trauma Response

Let’s have an open conversation about the fawning trauma response. If you’re unfamiliar with this term, don’t worry—we’re here to explore what it means and offer some insights on how to navigate it. So, grab a cup of tea, find a cozy spot, and let’s dive into this topic together. Understanding the Fawning Trauma Response:

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Trauma

Conquering Dental Anxiety: How to Tackle Dentist Phobia with Confidence

Let’s dive into a topic that can make many of us cringe: dentist phobia. If the mere thought of a dental visit sends shivers down your spine, you’re not alone. Dental anxiety is a common struggle, but fear not! With a little know-how and some proactive strategies, you can conquer your dentist phobia and take

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Fear, How To, Trauma

Finding Serenity Within: The Healing Power of Meditation for Complex Trauma

Complex trauma can leave deep emotional scars, but through the practice of meditation, we can cultivate inner peace, resilience, and a sense of empowerment. So, grab a cushion, find a peaceful spot, and let’s dive into the transformative world of meditation and complex trauma. Understanding Complex Trauma Complex trauma refers to prolonged and repeated exposure

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Healing, Meditation, Mindfulness, Trauma, Wellness

How to Approach Repressed Memories

Repressed memories are a difficult and complex topic that can cause a great deal of distress for those who experience them. These are memories that have been unconsciously blocked or forgotten due to trauma or other negative experiences. While repressed memories can protect you from emotional pain in the short term, they can also cause

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Anxiety, Trauma