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Gentle Reminders Every Therapist Needs (Yes, Even the Seasoned Ones)

Therapists hold space for others all day long. We listen deeply, regulate our nervous systems while co-regulating others’, and offer empathy, insight, and presence—sometimes back to back for eight hours straight. We are trained to support our clients through pain, resistance, growth, and breakthroughs. But even with all the knowledge and skill in the world, […]

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Professional/Work, Therapists

What Are “Spoons”? Understanding the Spoon Theory in Mental Health

If you’ve ever heard someone say, “I’m out of spoons today,” and wondered what on earth they meant, you’re not alone. It’s not about forgetting to do the dishes—it’s a shorthand that’s taken root in disability and mental health communities to describe something many of us struggle to explain: limited energy. The Spoon Theory, coined

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Acceptance, Anxiety, Boundaries, Challenges, College/Students, Compassion, Coping Skills, Couples, Family, Friends, Mental Health, Relationships, Stress

5 Practical Ways to Help Kids Cope with Anxiety (That Actually Work)

Anxiety isn’t just an “adult thing.” Kids feel it too—sometimes just as intensely, but without the language or life experience to explain what’s going on. Whether it shows up as a stomachache before school, a meltdown over a seemingly small change, or a refusal to try something new, anxiety in kids can be sneaky and

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Anxiety, Children, Coping Skills, Parenting

6 Texts Narcissists Send to Keep You Hooked (And Why They Work)

It usually starts with a message that feels sweet—or at least confusing enough to make you pause. You’re thinking about pulling away from the relationship, maybe setting boundaries or finally walking away, when ding—your phone lights up with a text that throws you right back into the loop. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone.

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Attachment, Relationships

What It Really Means When You Cry in Therapy (And Why It’s Totally Okay)

Let’s be real—crying in front of someone can feel awkward. Add a therapy room, a box of tissues, and the weight of everything you’ve been carrying, and suddenly you’re in full meltdown mode while someone calmly takes notes. If you’ve ever cried in therapy—or worried that you might—you’re not alone. It’s actually one of the

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Emotions, Therapy

Why Brain Breaks Matter: The Science of Pausing to Boost Focus and Mental Health

In a culture that glorifies being busy, taking a break can feel like slacking off. Whether you’re a student grinding through assignments, a professional hopping from one Zoom call to another, or a parent juggling a hundred mental tabs, stopping—even for a minute—can feel counterintuitive. But the truth is, our brains aren’t designed to run

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Acceptance, Coping Skills, Goals, Mental Health, Professional/Work, Resilience

Color Psychology: How Colors Quietly Influence Your Mood (Without You Even Noticing)

Ever walk into a coffee shop and instantly feel cozy, or notice how hospitals always seem to go heavy on the beige? That’s not a coincidence. It’s color psychology at work. Colors do way more than make a room look nice. They set the mood, influence how we think, and even affect how our bodies

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Art Therapy, Emotions, Mental Health, Sensory

Unlearning Nice Girl Conditioning: How to Stop Shrinking Yourself to Keep the Peace

So many of us were taught early on that being liked is the goal. That being “nice” means being quiet, agreeable, helpful, and never rocking the boat. On the surface, it sounds harmless. Who doesn’t want to be kind, right? But this version of “nice” isn’t about kindness. It’s about shrinking yourself so everyone else

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How To, Personal Development, Women

Unlearning Who You Were Told to Be: How to Reconnect with Your Authentic Self

Somewhere along the line—maybe when you were trying to make everyone proud, keep the peace, or live up to what was expected—you started showing up as who you thought you were supposed to be, not necessarily who you actually are. Maybe you became the one who always had it together. Or maybe you learned to

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Connection, How To, Personal Development

8 Signs You Might Be a Highly Sensitive Person (And What That Really Means)

Being called “too sensitive” can sting, right? It’s something a lot of us have heard, and it’s often said like it’s a bad thing. But for highly sensitive people, sensitivity isn’t a flaw—it’s a strength. Your brain and body just take in more: more detail, more emotion, more everything. Sure, that can feel overwhelming sometimes,

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Emotions, Highly Sensitive, Personality Types

Why “Letting Them” Might Be Your Best Mental Health Move Yet

If you’ve ever found yourself constantly stepping in to fix, manage, or smooth things over for everyone else, you’re in good company. It’s a habit that sneaks in quietly and stays for the long haul. And while it often comes from a caring place, it can leave you feeling exhausted and emotionally drained. What if

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Acceptance, Challenges, Family, Mental Health, Relationships

How to Tell If You’re Stuck in the Doomscrolling Spiral (And What It’s Doing to Your Brain)

You know how it starts. You’re just going to check one thing. A quick peek at the news, maybe see what’s trending, scroll a little before bed. Ten minutes, tops. Suddenly it’s 1:12 a.m., your phone’s at 6%, and you’re convinced the world might actually be ending. Welcome to doomscrolling—your brain’s least fun way to

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Boundaries, How To, Social Media

Why Young Adults Are Struggling More with Anxiety and Depression Than Ever Before

It’s no secret that anxiety and depression are rising, especially among young adults. If you’re in your twenties or thirties and feeling like life is heavier than it should be, you’re not alone. So many people are trying to make sense of a world that asks for constant productivity, endless optimism, and instant answers. It’s

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Anxiety, Children, College/Students, Depression, Parenting

How Building Healthy Habits Can Transform Your Mental Health (and Your Life!)

Habits often get a bad reputation. We talk so much about “breaking bad habits” that we forget the other side of the story: the ones that heal, restore, and actually give back to us. Think of healthy habits as investments in your mental and emotional well-being. They don’t have to be complicated or time-consuming to

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Mental Health, Motivation, Personal Development, Wellness

Why You Should Seriously Consider Virtual Therapy (Even If You’re Not Sure It’s for You)

Let’s be real—there was a time when “online therapy” sounded like a temporary fix, something we all turned to because we had no other choice. But fast forward a few years, and virtual therapy isn’t just a backup plan—it’s a fully legitimate, effective, and even preferred way for many people to take care of their

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Getting Started, Therapy