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Why Counterculture Matters in Therapy: Healing Through Authenticity and Rebellion

When you hear the term “counterculture,” your mind might jump straight to images of tie-dyed shirts, punk music, or rebellious youth movements. But what if I told you that embracing counterculture could also be a powerful tool for mental health, personal growth, and healing? Counterculture work, especially in therapy, is all about stepping out of […]

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Acceptance, Healing, Personal Development, Resilience

How the Enneagram Can Deepen Self-Understanding in Therapy

The Enneagram has been having a moment—and for good reason. It’s not just another personality test designed to tell you which type of bread you’d be in a past life (although we love a good quiz). The Enneagram digs deep. It’s a tool that helps people understand their core motivations, fears, and patterns of behavior

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Personal Development, Personality Types, Therapy

Joyful Reciprocity: The Mental Health Magic of Giving and Receiving with Intention

There’s something quietly magical about the moment someone does something kind for you—and you genuinely want to give back. Not out of obligation, not to even the score, but because it feels good to respond with care. That feeling? It’s joyful reciprocity. And it’s more than just good manners or emotional instinct—it’s a concept deeply

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Celebrate, Friends, Mental Health, Relationships

Why Setting Boundaries Feels So Hard (And How to Make It Easier)

Setting boundaries seems simple, doesn’t it? Just say “no,” speak your truth, and voila—stress-free living! But if you’ve ever tried to set a boundary and ended up feeling guilty, anxious, or frustrated, you know it’s rarely that simple. So why is setting boundaries so challenging, especially when we logically know they’re essential for our mental

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Boundaries, Communication, How To, Relationships

The Real Difference Between Requests and Boundaries in Relationships

“Can you not do that?” “I need you to stop.” “That makes me uncomfortable.” These all sound like boundaries—but are they really? In therapy (and honestly, in life), we talk a lot about boundaries. But one of the most common misunderstandings is the difference between a request and a boundary. They’re both about communication, they

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Boundaries, Couples, Family, Friends, Relationships

Understanding Self-Abandonment: Why It Happens and How to Reconnect with Yourself

Have you ever caught yourself saying “yes” when every part of you wanted to say “no”? Or found yourself bending over backward for others, leaving your own needs, desires, and boundaries somewhere in the rearview mirror? If this resonates, you might be experiencing self-abandonment. It’s a pattern that often sneaks up on us, woven into

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Connection, How To, Personal Development

Therapy 101: Terms You’ll Definitely Hear (and Should Know!)

When you first start therapy, it can feel like stepping into a foreign country where everyone speaks another language. Therapists often toss around terms casually, but for newcomers, words like “boundaries,” “coping skills,” or “attachment style” can feel like a secret code. The good news? These terms are actually super helpful once you understand them.

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Getting Started, Therapy, Tips

What Is Treatment-Resistant Depression? Understanding the Diagnosis No One Talks About

Depression can be heavy, isolating, and incredibly frustrating—especially when you’ve done all the things and still don’t feel better. You’ve tried therapy. You’ve taken medication. Maybe more than one. Maybe more than five. And yet, that cloud hasn’t lifted. If this sounds familiar, you might be dealing with something called treatment-resistant depression (TRD)—a term that

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Depression, Mental Health, Q&A, Therapy, Treatments

How to Recognize (and Stop) Violating Your Own Boundaries

Have you ever said “yes” to something even when every fiber of your being screamed “no”? Maybe you agreed to work late, offered emotional support when you were running on empty, or gave someone a second (or third) chance after they crossed a line. Violating your own boundaries can feel like a slow erosion of

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Boundaries, How To, Personal Development

LGBT young adult therapy group — virtual supportive space called the LGBT Kiki

Where Queer Young Adults Go to Be Understood (and Actually Have Fun Doing It)

Growing up queer, most of us learn early on that fitting in doesn’t always mean belonging. You might find yourself constantly scanning the room, wondering if this is a space where you can be fully you — or if you need to hold parts of yourself back. And then there’s the other side of it:

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10 Journal Prompts to Help You Get to the Root of Your Anger

Anger gets a bad reputation. It’s often labeled as “negative,” “destructive,” or something to be suppressed. But the truth is, anger is a completely valid emotion—one that can actually be a messenger if you’re willing to listen. Underneath anger, there’s usually something deeper: hurt, fear, disappointment, shame, or even a sense of powerlessness. If you

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Anger, Coping Skills, Emotions, Journals

Understanding Attachment Styles: How Your Childhood Bonds Shape Adult Relationships

You know that feeling when someone pulls away and you suddenly spiral into overthinking every text you ever sent them? Or maybe you’re the one who feels smothered the moment someone gets emotionally close. These responses aren’t random—they’re often rooted in something called attachment styles. Attachment theory isn’t just psychobabble—it’s a well-researched framework that helps

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Attachment, Children, College/Students, Couples, Family, Friends, Relationships

The Psychology of Luck: How Mindset Shapes Your Good Fortune

We’ve all met people who seem like magnets for good luck. They always snag the perfect parking spot, land unexpected promotions, or randomly stumble into opportunities that feel like pure magic. On the flip side, we’ve also encountered those who seem to be followed by a cloud of misfortune—missing trains by seconds or always hitting

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Growth Mindset, Motivation, Personal Development

Why Therapy Can Feel Exhausting—And Why That’s Completely Normal

Therapy is often painted as a relaxing escape—a space to unwind, unload your worries, and feel refreshed. While that’s true (therapy can be wonderfully restorative), it can also be surprisingly exhausting. But why? Aren’t you supposed to leave sessions feeling lighter, not drained? The truth is, therapy can feel tiring for a very good reason.

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Emotions, Getting Started, Mental Health, Therapy

Fortune Telling: How This Sneaky Cognitive Distortion Keeps You Stuck

Picture this: you’re lying in bed, unable to sleep, convinced tomorrow’s meeting is destined to be a disaster. You’ve imagined every possible way it could go wrong—your boss frowning, colleagues rolling their eyes, or your ideas being dismissed. Before you know it, you’ve already decided tomorrow is doomed, leaving you anxious and exhausted before the

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Connection, Mental Health, Mindfulness