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Why Do Relationships End in Three Months?

The Psychology Behind the Three-Month Relationship Fade

It starts off like magic: butterflies, long talks, playlists that make you think of them, and maybe even daydreaming their name into your Notes app. Everything feels new, exciting, and promising. But then, almost out of nowhere—around the three-month mark—things start to shift. The energy changes, texts slow down, and suddenly you’re left wondering: What […]

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Couples, Relationships

8 Personal Development Tips for a Better You

In the ever-evolving narrative of our lives, the pursuit of personal development is like the plot twist that keeps the story interesting, fulfilling, and uniquely ours. It’s about turning the pages with intention, crafting chapters that resonate with growth, learning, and self-discovery. Let’s embark on this journey together, exploring personal development tips that aren’t just

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Goals, Personal Development, Resilience, Tips

What is the difference between a therapist and psychologist?

Navigating the world of mental health can sometimes feel like trying to solve a Rubik’s Cube – complex and colorful. One common puzzle? Understanding the difference between a therapist and a psychologist. Both play pivotal roles in mental health, but they’re not interchangeable. Let’s break it down in a way that doesn’t require a Ph.D.

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Getting Started, Therapy, Treatments

Enneagrams: Your Roadmap to Self-Discovery and Growth

Ever wondered why you react a certain way in stressful situations, or why certain things give you immense joy while others don’t? What if I told you there’s a fascinating tool that not only helps you understand these quirks but also offers a pathway to personal growth? Welcome to the world of Enneagrams! The Essence

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Personality Types

Why It’s Never Too Early to Teach Kids About Mental Health

Mental health is often visualized as an adult-centric concern, reserved for the complexities and stressors of grown-up life. Yet, as any heartwarming story or candid chat with a child reveals, their minds are bustling hubs of emotions, curiosities, fears, and joys. Just as we nurture their bodies with good nutrition and exercise, it’s paramount to

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Children, Parenting

When You’re Keeping It Together, But Barely

Have you ever seen someone who seems to have it all together – they’re rocking their job, nailing their social life, and yet, beneath that polished exterior, there’s an undercurrent of sadness, fatigue, or emptiness? This paradox is what many term as ‘functional depression,’ a lesser-known but equally significant cousin of major depression. The Mask

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Challenges, Depression

Tips for a Good Night’s Sleep

Sleep is essential to our health, both physical and mental. Yet, many of us struggle to get a good night’s rest. In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in a cycle of stress, late nights, and early mornings. Whether it’s because of stress, a busy schedule, or poor sleep habits, not getting

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Sleep, Tips

Dating in the Age of Anxiety: Navigating the Heart with Care

We’ve all been there – the fluttery excitement of a new relationship intertwined with a dash of nervousness and anticipation. It’s the classic cocktail of love. But what if your partner deals with more than just fleeting nervousness? What if anxiety plays a significant, daily role in their life? Dating someone with anxiety might seem

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Anxiety, Relationships

How to Walk Through Your Emotions

Emotions can be incredibly powerful and overwhelming, especially during challenging times. Whether it’s stress, anxiety, sadness, or anger, it’s important to acknowledge and process your emotions in a healthy way. Our emotions serve as a window to our soul. Whether it’s joy, sadness, anger, or love, every emotion tells a story, and it’s essential for

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Emotions, How To, Journals, Mindfulness

How to Get Your Mom to Go to Therapy

It’s funny how life often gives us the role of being our parents’ guides when they once guided our first steps. Sometimes, we see our moms (or mother figures) struggling with challenges they’re not equipped to handle alone. And that’s when the thought pops up: Maybe mom could benefit from therapy. But how do we

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Family, Getting Started, How To, Therapy

The Power of Intuition: How to Trust Your Gut and Avoid Analysis Paralysis

Have you ever found yourself stuck in a never-ending cycle of overthinking, even about the smallest decisions? Should you get that almond milk latte or the classic cappuccino? Should you wear the red shirt or the blue one? Or maybe, you’ve pondered on the heavier questions like, “Is this the right job for me?” or

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Stress

5 Things Not to Say to Your Anxious Spouse (and What to Say Instead)

Ah, love. It’s complicated, right? We’ve all been there: your partner is on edge, their anxiety is bubbling up, and you desperately want to help. But sometimes, our good intentions can lead us astray. Instead of being a balm, our words may unintentionally add fuel to the fire. If you’ve ever felt your foot heading

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Anxiety, Couples

When Your Therapist Leaves: Coping Strategies for Handling Loss and Change

When Your Therapist Leaves: How to Cope with the End of a Therapeutic Relationship

Change always sounds poetic in theory—“the only constant in life,” right? But when it’s your therapist leaving, it can feel anything but poetic. More like disorienting, disappointing, or even downright painful. Therapy isn’t just showing up and venting; it’s about safety, trust, and connection. It’s often one of the few places where you’re fully seen.

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Therapy

The Surprising Reason Why Life Feels Less Intense

It’s a beautiful Saturday morning. The sun is shining, birds are chirping, and there’s a hint of freshness in the air. Yet, something feels… different. Life seems quieter, maybe even a bit muted. It’s as if someone turned down the volume on life’s intensity dial. Sounds familiar? Let’s dive into this curious phenomenon that most

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Wellness

The 10-10-10 Rule: A Simple Strategy for Better Decision-Making

Making decisions can be tough, especially when there are several options to choose from. Sometimes, we tend to make hasty decisions, without carefully considering the possible outcomes. This is where the 10-10-10 rule comes in – a simple strategy that can help us make better decisions. What is the 10-10-10 Rule? The 10-10-10 rule is

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How To